According to a new study there are 4 different levels or types of orgasms.  They range from THE BEST to the So So. The Best are going to be those emotionally and physically  intense orgasms that bring on that sense of Satisfcation (with a Capital S!) and that calming state of relaxtion when it’s over…you know, the kind that we never want to be ‘OVER’. Then, the So So orgasms can best bescribed as, “eh”, with not as much as that afterglow that we get from the The Besties.  So, the question is, How do we get the Besties more often? 3 easy ways…

1. Masturbation Station: There is nothing wrong with self stimulation, especially self stimulation while engaged with your partner. Some women worry that a guy will be threatened if a women touches and tries to please herself.  The truth is, he will most likely LOVE IT and be extremely turned on! For most women the key to orgasm lies in the nerve packed clitoris and we don’t always get this form of stimulation durring intercourse.  We can get it if we are on top, but most other positions wont allow enough friction to give the sensation we need fo our special button.  It is suggested that either he or YOU manually stimulate the button; im thinkin’ he would like to see you do it.

2. Multiply the fun: Women are most likely to orgasm when they engage in multiple acts of sex, for example oral sex and vaginal sex. It’s proven, through research, that couples that try MORE in the sack find sex to be sexier and spend more time on it.  You will get out of it what you put into it!

3. Connect with your Partner: Higher quality orgasms are achieved when women are emotionally bonded and connected with their partners. The close you are the more comfortable you feel. The more comfortable you feel the more likely you are to open up and try new things, explore eachother and really take time to please one another. In essence, when you are in “love” sex is better, not only emotionally but physically as well.

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” Dear Spicy Parties,

I am pleased to tell you that we all had an amazing time at our Spicy Home Party.  We had 5 other parties previous to our Spicy Party.  The other parties were with other companies and we were nevere pleased, which is why we decided to check out Spicy Home Parties when we did.  Our Consultant played multiple games and had several interactive activities planned for us.  The best and most impressive aspect of our Spicy Party Consultant was that she really knew her stuff! We all walked away having learned something new that evening and our husbands were truly appreciative for it!

…Many of the girls weren’t quite sure about their G-spot of where it was and many women had heard the term ‘clitoris’ before but still were not quite sure of it’s function. We not only walked away with amazing purchases but some pretty amazing knowledge to go along with the memorable night.  Every Sex Toy Consultant should be trained by Spicy Home Parties, as this company clearly knows what they are doing.  Thank you Spicy Home Parties for the knowledge and the memories…

….Our favorite part of our Spicy Home Party was the Memory Vase that we were all able to create for our Bachelorette girl of the night.  This was such a cute idea and its something she will be able to keep with her forever.  We were also given many opportunities to win free prizes and/or recieve discounts on our orders, which is something we were all super excited about!

I was so impressed with this business that I have been telling all my girlfriends, that could not attend the party, what a terrific time they missed out on and we are planning to Host another Spicy Home Party very soon.  I was also VERY impressed with the amount of money the Sales Consultant was able to make from just this one party and I am seriously considering becoming a Consultant myself.  I have actually referred a few friends to Spicy Home Parties to become potential Consultants, as this is a company that we would be proud to represent.

Always a Loyal Customer,

Karen W.  “

We truly enjoy receiving these type of mail.  We take pride in providing our customers with the best Home Party experience possible.  We feel that over the decades the Home Party scene has lost its luster and we aim to bring it back and Spice it Up! Book your Spicy Home Party today and let us know how much you loved it! Thank you Karen, it is customers like you that make this all worth it! Have a great Holiday Season from everyone here at Spicy Home Parties.

It’s always good to know your body and how your body responds to stimulation and arousal.  We are going to go through the 4 stages of the Human Sexual Response Cycle to help you better understand just whats happening to you during times of intimate arousal and excitement.  Knowing will help to enhance your sexual experience and make you able to pinpoint the cause of any sexual problems or issues you may be experiencing.

Phase 1: Excitement

Responses that occur in this phase can last a few minutes and up to several hours! What happens in Phase 1?:

Increased muscle tension.
Accelerated breathing and increased heart rate.
Blotchiness of the skin, especially on the neck, chest and back.
Erect nipples.
Blood flow to the genitals increase. Swelling of the clitoris and inner lips (labia minor), and erection of the penis occur.
Vagina becomes naturally lubricated.
Woman’s breasts become fuller  (may increase up to 25%) and the vaginal walls begin to swell.
Man’s testicles begin to swell, his scrotum gets tighter and he begins secreting a lubricating liquid (“pre-cum”)

Phase 2: Plateau Phase

What Happens in Phase 2?:

Phase 1 changes become intensified.
The vagina and penis continue to swell due to the increased blood flow.
The clitoris becomes very sensitive (maybe even to painful to touch) and will automatically retract itself under the clitoral hood to avoid direct stimulation.
Testicles become withdrawn into the scrotum.
Heart rate, breathing and blood pressure are continually increasing.
Muscle spasm can occur in face, hands and feet.

Phase 3: Orgasm

The shortest of the phases and usually lasts only a few seconds. What Happens in the Orgasm Phase?:

Involuntary muscle contractions begin.
Muscles in the feet begin to spasm.
Feeling of a sudden, forceful release of sexual tension.
Rhythmic contractions of the muscles in the genitalia begin, which results in release of semen and bodily fluids for both male and female (females do not secrete semen).

Phase 4: Resolution

The body returns to normal.

This phase is marked by a sense of well being, enhanced intimacy and often fatigue.  some women may be able to return rapidly to the orgasm phase to experience multiple orgasms.  Men, however, need more of a recovery time after they reach orgasm.  This recovery period is known as a refractory period and they cannot reach orgasm during this period.  The refractory time period is different for each man and usually lengthens with age.

Check out our Vibrators that are sure to take you through the 4 Phases of the Human Sexual Response Cycle.  Use vibrators alone or with a partner to add some spice to your love life!

Learn information like this and much more at your very own Spicy Home Party.  We focus on education and professionalism and of course having fun! Book your Party Today!

Food That Puts You In The Mood! Below you will find a list of the best Libido Boosting Foods on the market.  Not only are they a Great sex booster, but they are healthy for your overall well being, and pretty tasty too.

Celery: Celery boosts a powerful substance known as androsterone.  Androsterone is an odorless hormone that is released through sweat.    This is especially beneficial to men or those trying to attract the ladies as women are drawn to the androsterone chemical.

Maca: This uncommon food is known as “natures Viagra.”  It is believed to improve sexual performance, the degree in which people desire to have sex, and is said to be effective in successfully increasing sperm count.  Maca is also known to increase testosterone levels; CHA-CHING!!! Maca is great for those men who suffer from erectile dysfunction.  Aside from sexual benefits, maca has proven to make you feel younger and more energized.  It also has some benefits for us gals; it helps to increase our sex drive and fertility!!!

Pumpkin seeds: A diet enhanced with pumpkin seeds will lead to a fulfilling sex life by increasing potency, drive and fertility for men AND women.   Pumpkin seeds make a great daytime snack!! Mmm!

Sauerkraut: In a study done by diet enthusiast Gillian Mckeith proves that more than 90% of men were more “active” after eating the delightful dish. Some love this food and some hate it, but for the sexual benefit it’s well worth it!!

Bananas: This fruit is high in potassium and B vitamins, which just so happens to be the perfect concoction for increasing sex hormones!

Almonds: the smell of almonds is thought to arouse passion in females.  Almonds also help to produce healthy male hormones which is vital when regulating sex drive.

Avocado: the avocado tree is know, to the Aztecs, as the “testicle tree.” This vegetable helps to increase the male and female sex drive.  Avacado is great all around food to consume.  It has high levels of folic acid and helps metabolize proteins, which provide you with more energy.  Avocado also contains B6 vitamins, which is a nutrient that helps to improve male hormone production and potassium, which helps in the regulation of the female thyroid.  It’s good all the way around!

Asparagus: high in vitamin E, which is referred to as the “sex vitamin.” The Vegetarian Society claims that if you eat Asparagus for 3 days straight your sex drive should be through the roof! Have you ever seen the shape of asparagus…It’s pretty suggestive anyways.

Chillies: the ingredient in chillies that make them so spicy is called capsaicin .  Capsaicin triggers the release of endorphins.  Endorphins are the “feel good” chemical your brain.  Capsaicin also stimulates nerve endings and raises your heart rate; they getcha goin’!

Basil: this spice increase blood flood, stimulates the libido and increases fertility.  Its makes great addition to almost any meal and is also said to increase your overall well being for your body an mind.  The most attractive feature of this spice is that it is supposed to drive men wild, well the smell, I mean.   Mediterranean Hookers used to rub basil all over them before they hit the streets to attract more customers!

Figs: some say figs are an aphrodisiac because of their suggestive shape.  Besides the appearance of a fig they are very high in amino acids which have proven to increase your sex drive and increase sexual stamina.

Garlic: not so great for the breath but it can work a miracle on a sex drive!! Garlic contains very high levels or an ingredient called allicin.  Allicin definitely improves blood flow to sexual organs.  However, chewing on a large garlic clove won’t be helpful.  The Allicin is only found in chopped garlic which is a result of an enzyme reaction from the chopping.

If you have anymore foods to add to the list please do so.  We would love to hear about your own sexy super food findings! www.SpicyHomeParties.com, 1.877.288.7150.

The G-Spot is the most referred to term when it comes to pleasure zones on the Male and Female body. Everyone knows the Term “G-Spot,” so since the term is so widely used that means everyone knows what the G-Spot really is, where it is and how to find it right, right? WRONG! More than 50% of the world has no idea what this G-Spot is, but they sure do like using the word.

We are here to eliminate any confusion, as you read on you will become fully enlightened to the world of the G-Spot and How Pleasurable it can be, and even where to find it.

The G-Spot was discovered back in the 1950’s. A Dr. Ernst Grafenberg discovered the pleasure spot. Hence, how the G-Spot got its name. It was named after the man who discovered it. Dr. G referred to the G-Spot in medical Terms, which are “… a Spongy Tissue of the Paraurethral Gland…” This would make it the equivalent of the Male Prostate. Yes, the Male Prostate is the Male G-Spot, and can be located in the anal region. Back to the female. The G-Spot is the counterpart of the clitoris. The Clitoris is a bean shaped tissue located on the external area of the vagina, and it is there solely for the purpose of bring her great pleasure. So, the G-Spot is an extension of the clitoris that is located on the vaginal wall (internally), and is solely meant for bringing great pleasure as well. It is only a couple inches inside the vagina, so if can actually be reached with something as short as a finger.

What makes the G-Spot feel so good when it is stimulated? Well, all the G-Spot (and the clitoris) is, is tissue made up of blood vessels and nerve endings that are extremely sensitive, in a good way!

How do I find the G-Spot?

Now, that you have a pretty good understanding of what the G-spot is and where it came from, all you need to know now is how to find the dam thing. It’s actually very easy, You simply insert and press up towards your belly button. You will feel a textured piece of tissue. Massage that area and you will feel a strong sensation that may mimic what it feels like to urinate. Don’t worry you will not urinate from this sensation. If you keep stimulating the area you will experience an earth shattering, mind blowing orgasm!

Before stimulating the G-Spot make sure you are fully aroused and lubricated otherwise it may cause some discomfort.

What Toys can I use to stimulate my G-Spot?

Have you ever seen those toys with the Curve in the Head? Toys like the Playful G. The Curve is there to help you find your G-Spot. Many G-Spot toys vibrate so once you have found the location you can simply turn up the vibes and let your toy do the work.

Please leave and questions or comments and we will get back to you shortly.